Parents dreading a nightmare Bank Holiday car journey with grumpy kids should switch the radio on to a music station, suggests a study.
Researchers say that to improve future relationship with your kids, turn up the music - it just might do wonders for your future relationship with your son or daughter.
Researchers found that young men and women who shared musical experiences with their parents during childhood - and especially during adolescence - have better relationships with their moms and dads as they enter adulthood.
Study co-author Professor Jake Harwood, of the University of Arizona's Department of Communication, said: "If you have little kids, and you play music with them, that helps you be closer to them, and later in life will make you closer to them.
"If you have teenagers and you can successfully listen to music together or share musical experiences with them, that has an even stronger effect on your future relationship and the child's perception of the relationship in emerging adulthood."
Researchers surveyed a group of young adults, average age 21, about how often they engaged with their parents, as children, in activities such as listening to music together, attending concerts together or playing musical instruments together.
Participants reported on their memories of experiences they had between ages eight and 13 and age 14 and older.
They also shared how they perceive their relationship with their parents now.
While shared musical experiences at all age levels were associated with better perceptions of parent-child relationship quality in young adulthood, the effect was most pronounced for shared musical experiences that took place during adolescence.
Prof Harwood said: "With young kids, musical activity is fairly common - singing lullabies, doing nursery rhymes.
"With teenagers, it's less common, and when things are less common you might find bigger effects, because when these things happen, they're super important."
The study, published in the Journal of Family Communication, started as an undergraduate project by Sandi Wallace, who was a student in Prof Harwood's class in music and communication and is the lead author.
She said: "I was interested in seeing if music, with all of its power and influence on society today, could perhaps influence and positively affect the parent-child relationship."
For the study, the researchers controlled for other ways children spent time with their parents growing up, and were able to determine that music seems to have a unique effect.
They say two factors may help explain the relationship between shared musical experiences and better relationship quality.
Prof Harwood explained: "Synchronisation, or coordination, is something that happens when people play music together or listen to music together.
"If you play music with your parent or listen to music with your parents, you might do synchronised activities such as dancing or singing together, and data shows that that causes you to like one another more."
Ms Wallace said the other way music may strengthen relationship quality is through empathy.
She added: "A lot of recent research has focused on how emotions can be evoked through music, and how that can perpetuate empathy and empathic responses toward your listening partner."
The researchers found evidence that both coordination and empathy play a role, although coordination appears to be more influential, based on study participants' responses to questions measuring their empathy for their parents as well as how in sync they feel with their parents when working to complete a task together.
Prof Harwood said it was Important for parents to note that shared musical experiences with their children don't have to be complicated.
In fact, simple activities such as listening to music in the car together may have an even greater impact than more formal musical experiences such as playing in a band together, according to the researchers' findings.
The researchers urged parents to increase their musical interactions with their children - especially their teens - and even empower them to control the radio dial every now and then.
Ms Wallace added: "For people who are just becoming parents or have small children, they may be thinking long term about what they want their relationship with their kids to be.
"It's not to say that this is going to be the prescription for a perfect relationship, but any parent wants to find ways to improve their relationship with their child and make sure that it's maintained long term, and this may be one way it can be done."